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The Dougy Center
Submitted by Frank Ryan

The mission of The Dougy Center for Grieving Children & Families is to provide support in a safe place where children, teens, young adults and their families grieving a death can share their experiences. We currently serve over 350 kids and their 200 adult family members in grief support groups every month in Portland, Oregon and the surrounding communities. Since our founding in 1982, we have served over 20,000 children, teens and families in our local program.

The Dougy Center regularly provides grief and crisis intervention at schools, social service organizations and businesses impacted by a death. In addition, we provide educational materials about children and grief, and training opportunities to local and national agencies in need of our expertise. We respond to hundreds of calls from people seeking advice in grief situations, information about our program, and referral resources, and have provided comfort to families after the Oklahoma City, 9/11, and Katrina disasters. We are widely known for our groundbreaking grief support group model, and our expertise in this area is in high demand both locally and nationally. Through our National Training Program, thousands have learned how to help grieving children and over 170 programs using The Dougy Center model have been established worldwide.

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Not the War the People Want
An Opinion by Bonita Meyers

I recently heard a quote via electronic news media supporting an anti-war demonstration that was so thoughtless it caught my attention.

Regarding the U.S. war in Iraq, the quote was: “This is not a war the people want.”

There has never been a war the American “people” wanted. “People” throughout our history includes every citizen. Every citizen includes our administration, our congress, our local government and all citizens, right down to any child who can read.

Who wants a war?  No one.

The exception in this country was during the American Revolution, when patriots fought to free future generations from British rule in this country. Those future generations are us. Even then, loyalists did not want a war, nor did they know what freedom from an unelected king meant. They were afraid of change.

Thank God devoutly; we have citizens with enough foresight to understand that when we are attacked we cannot sit around mouthing platitudes if we wish to remain free.

Thank God devoutly; we have young citizens willing to put themselves in harm’s way to preserve what others have long ago died to give us.

Without the sacrifices of our armed forces and their families, we would have had among others, a king or queen ruling this land, or a kaiser, or an emperor, or what else? A terrorist of unknown faith - with destruction of our land beyond our imagination?

We’re not supposed to oppose that? We’re supposed to sit back and convince ourselves and others that no country would dare try to conquer us?

So, all of you who think this war is against your principals, your personal life, your family, your philosophy, who, pray tell, do you think is going to preserve your lifestyle?

The United States is not alone on planet Earth. There are those who despise us and there are those who love us and there are those who would infiltrate our country and bit by bit harm us in anyway possible. There are those born and raised here, U.S. citizens, who spout hatred for our country. They are not arrested or beheaded – as would happen to them in other countries. Malcontents are daily in the news and plugging away on computers pouring out rivers of hate and misinformation.

The Iraq war is not a popular war. History speaks of no war that was popular. Yet this phrase is repeated sanctimoniously by newscasters and written by reporters, especially while covering protests.

A prom queen is popular. A soft drink is popular. A hit musical is popular. Why would the killing of human beings be popular? What idiocy.

Keeping the faith with those who died for this country, perseverance in protecting our hard-won costly freedoms, and freeing other nations means continued freedom for us. That is why we fight wars. We claim no other land or country to be under our rule.

We all grieve the loss of life as we do through more wars in our lifetime than young people throwing demonstrations ever experienced. Obviously they have not been taught our true history or lessons learned through those wars.

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The Medical Profession Today!
An Editorial Comment by Frank Ryan

I have some great doctors that give me good care, but a couple of them are a little bit impersonal and at times have had even an arrogant bedside manner.

doctor prescribing medicineRecently when going through a procedure I asked the doctor, “Do you know what this procedure is going to cost me?”

His reply, “No. That is not my business to know. I am here to keep you well, not worry about your cost.”

I said, “That’s interesting doctor. If I sold you a car, or furniture, or service I am fairly certain you would want to know the cost. I don’t think I could just sell it to you and let you know later how much it cost.”

The above conversation is one I have had several times in recent years with medical practitioners, and it always irritates me that there is no concern as to what procedures cost, or how the patient is going to pay (even their share) for these procedures. In addition, the cost of many prescriptions is beyond the scope of monthly budgets, and I have observed a “so what” attitude at the prescription counter and in some medical offices.

Now it is true that I have on occasion received some free samples, and kind concern from my primary doctor, but many of the specialists seem to be remote except when they are in the zone for an operation or procedure that will pay big dollars.

My hope is that all the folks who read this article will ask their doctors and their pharmacists what the costs are on the medications prescribed and services to be received, especially when they have insurance. This year alone I was able to reduce the cost to my company by thousands of dollars by shopping and keeping track of costs even when they were paid by my insurance company.

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A Modern-Day Parable
Submitted by Frank Ryan

A Japanese company (Toyota) and an American company (Ford) decided to have a canoe race on the Missouri River. Both teams practiced long and hard to reach their peak performance before the race.

On the big day, the Japanese won by a mile. The Americans, very discouraged and depressed, decided to investigate the reason for the crushing defeat. A management team made up of senior management was formed to investigate and recommend appropriate action. Their conclusion was the Japanese had eight people rowing and one person steering, while the American team had eight people steering and one person rowing.

Feeling a deeper study was in order; American management hired a consulting company and paid them a large amount of money for a second opinion. They advised, of course, that too many people were steering the boat, while not enough people were rowing.

Not sure of how to utilize that information, but wanting to prevent another loss to the Japanese, the rowing team’s management structure was totally reorganized to four steering supervisors, three area steering superintendents and one assistant superintendent steering manager.

They also implemented a new performance system that would give the one person rowing the boat greater incentive to work harder. It was called the “Rowing Team Quality First Program,” with meetings, dinners and free pens for the rower. There was discussion of getting new paddles, canoes and other equipment, extra vacation days for practices and bonuses.

The next year the Japanese won by two miles.

Humiliated, the American management laid off the rower for poor performance, halted development of a new canoe, sold the paddles and canceled all capital investments for new equipment. The money saved was distributed to the senior executives as bonuses and the next year’s racing team was out-sourced to India.

Sadly, the end.

Here's something else to think about:

Ford has spent the last 30 years moving its factories out of the U.S., claiming it can't make money paying American wages. Toyota has spent the last 30 years building more than a dozen plants inside the U.S.

The last quarter's results for 2007: Toyota makes 4 billion in profits while Ford racked up 9 billion in losses.

Ford folks are still scratching their heads.
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Modern Proverbs to Live By
From "An American Ditty Book" by Frank Ryan

Gardening

“May your garden be green with the bull you give it, and your mouth be sweet with the bull you don’t!”

“May you always have roses in your cheeks,
Four leaf clovers in your lawn
A heart full of love and hope
In your little old Irish heart.”

“May your latherin’ not outdo your blatherin’ and may the grass never grow taller than your lawnmower!”

Greed

“My!  Please quit trying to put ten pounds of flour in a five-pound bag and expect a tidy outcome!”

Golf

“May you always be a gentle person, and never step in front of another golfer except when accepting the Winners trophy!”

Animals

“Pigs and Porcupines have a lot in common. You can’t hold one and you dare not let go of the other.”

“May your horse finish first in the race, as long as the saddle is on straight and there is honor in it.”

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